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Vincent Bocchinfuso's avatar

I appreciate how honest this piece is. The 9/11 moment, the early belief in hard work, the later realization about luck, connections, and gray areas; a lot of that will resonate with people who lived through the same era. Lived experience like this matters, and it shouldn’t be dismissed.

Where I start to disagree isn’t with the idea that effort alone isn’t enough, that’s obviously true, but with the jump from personal experience to a broad conclusion about how the whole system works. Seeing how much success depends on timing, access, and knowing the rules exposes real flaws in the meritocracy story. But it doesn’t mean merit is fake or meaningless. It means it’s incomplete and uneven.

That difference matters. Once meritocracy is treated mainly as an illusion, the conversation shifts away from fixing what’s broken and toward rejecting the idea altogether. We stop asking how to widen access to opportunity and start sorting people morally instead. At that point, experience becomes proof, and disagreement starts to look like denial.

The piece is strongest when it shows how fear hardens ideology and how systems reward people who know how to work them. To me (my opinion only), it’s weakest when it suggests that because the promise was oversold, the principles behind it are bankrupt. The harder truth is that both things can be true at once: effort matters, but starting positions matter too; markets can reward initiative, but they also amplify advantage; safety nets are necessary, but they don’t replace real mobility.

That tension, not switching teams, is where real reform actually happens.